Ahhh who ever said Real Men don't do cats? My son and my husband both love our cat, and loved the one that passed away at age 13, some 17 years ago!! And that cat (Diesel) was loved by my dad and my youngest brother. I found Diesel at my parents home, during a rough patch in our lives, and Diesel was the comic relief we needed for tense situations. Then after my divorce and later on my parents divorce and I finally remarried and took Diesel home to live with us. He lived 3 years with us before he went to be buried in his Favorite Sunning Spot.