I totally understand that you aren't even thinking about quitting right now. You've got enough on your plate to deal with. Later on, you'll know when the time is right. I had pretty much gotten to the point where I was smoking so much that I felt like CRAP. When I get to that point I don't even crave cigarettes. The danger comes in a few days when I feel fabulous and think, oh, I'll just go have one with my neighbor.
I also wanted to pass along a great resource that we've been using www.uptoparents.org - helps to create a plan for keeping the kids best interests first and foremost for you and your spouse or ex-spouse.
Hi again, Sue. Hope your day is going well. Guess what? I noticed over there that you are quitting smoking...well I just quit (again) today. I told my kids and they jumped for joy. How's it going for you?