Hey, I'm living in Wheatfield, In and loved that you wrote for your goal to feel good about your body. I have seen so many people that focus on the pounds and I know that is so discouraging especially when different body types can't alwasy be as small as the 'ideal' weight charts say. You're profile pic is beautiful--I'm sure your family is lucky to have you! I too have two kids, two boys--and I'm trying to focus a little more on me so that I can be better for them. If you want an accountability buddy--message me! ;) Who knows we might be neighbors! I'm really focusing right now on what I eat. I don't over do it at meals but I graze all day. During the summer is my weakness because I'm a teacher and have the summer to be at home. I try to stay busy but it's not the same. I woke up last week and my fat jeans fit more closely than I'd like--ugh. So I'm hitting reality hard and trying to pay attention to mindless eating. Any tips on how to use this site would be great. I'm new at it--Have a blessed Sunday.