Wow, I know what you mean about the buffet. I've been trying to make my kids eat healthier too. My kids fight me tooth and nail on that front =) The good thing is that your little one is still little and you've got time to teach your daughter to eat healthy.
I saw that you're in the Bay area. Awesome! It's cool to have know another SPer in the area!
Best of luck in all your goals but I bet you're going to be very successful.
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