Becca and her parents are home today for about 10 days before she goes back to Philadelphia to begin radiation and chemo therapy. She's looking her bright and cheerful self, but of course the actual therapy hasn't started yet.
We are coping. It's not easy, but we're managing. 1060 days ago
It's okay that your response is, "It was her time." It's also okay that you miss her in spite of that. DH's Grammy was 95 and ready to go, but he still grieves for the person who was such an influence on his childhood, not for the frail old woman who was ready to rest.
People saying, "I'm sorry" to you gives you the ability to say, "It's all right, it was her time." I don't know how you would feel if they just said, "Well, it was her time, so you shouldn't grieve."
(And thank you very much for your continued support. It means a lot.) 1065 days ago