I'm glad you aren't offended when I make suggestions like that. I have a bad reaction when I see/hear about people being hurt by others. It makes me want to thump them sometimes (the hurters not the hurtees), especially when they are unaware of how what they say or do affects others.
Just so you know, I'm not so "bloodthirsty" in real life. I talk the talk about putting people in their place but I don't walk the walk, I'm afraid. I guess that is one reason I'm so defensive on others' behalf; I know how it feels to be hurt and I hate to see it happen to others.