Now stop that !! You are NOT the fat ugly sister. You go to your brother's wedding and enjoy yourself !!! This should be a time of JOY for the entire family.
My advice ? where something smashing the suits your current figure ! Ill fitting clothes look horrible on a person regardless of their size. That's why it's important to wear something that flatters your figure. Don't wear anything too tight. Like I said, nothing looks worse than ill fitting clothes. Go out and SPLURGE. Spend money on a really nice outfit. Get your hair done. Get your nails done. Go all out !!
Nothing says NEW ATTITUDE like a new outfit. So, no more beatings. the beatings aren't productive. Go treat yourself to a wonderful outfit. Then you go to that wedding and you really enjoy yourself. Because if you sit in the corner saying,"woe is me". Yeah, people will call you the fat ugly sister. Don't let that happen.
This is a joyous occasion !! Have some FUN !
And well, let's say you find a smashing outfit that isn't quite the right size. That's when you buy a foundation garment to wear under it. These are not our mother's girdles. The new body slimmers can smooth out all the lumps and bumps. Many women wear something like SPANX to keep everything in place. size doesn't matter either. JLo wears Spanx ! I can prove it. www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2216
The point ? lots of women use foundation garments to "adjust" their figures. The point ? These are things you can do to feel better about yourself AND have a good time at the wedding.