A woman I work with likes to wear high heels. She admits that they are not always comfortable to wear and so she brings really cute slippers to wear during mid day. I am sure she knows this and i would concur if she did; she looks smoking hot with the heels on and just kinda blends in when she doesn't.
I swear her heels make her stand a particular way that her breasts and boobs are more accentuated. is that possible?
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734 6/25/10 2:00 P
My wife wears flats with skirts sometimes. Depends on what we are doing. Its a nice event she doesn't, but if you going out to dinner/bar/movie/walk around downtown/whatever I think flats are totally acceptable if that's what your more comfortable in.
I really appreciate a well-shaped pair of high heels as well as the effects on legs, bottom, gait. Unfortunately, as was said, not many of the shoes are what I'd call attractive and well-shaped (but I'm glad to shop with my woman and tell her what I like). If a woman walks down the street dressed nicely and in killer heels, I notice.
Also, as you've noted, many of the shoes are not comfortable. You have to find the right brand for your feet, and figure out what add-on accoutrements make them work for you (like forefoot pads etc). It's also key to learn how to walk in them well. If Ginger Rogers could dance in heels, most women can learn to do so with at least some level of grace.
We could generally care less if your bag matches your shoes, handbag, nails, etc. But if they are garishly mismatched with your clothing, we will notice. Everyone appreciates someone dressed up nicely, right? People that I know do. And high heels go properly with certain types of outfits for certain types of occasions.
Now, I've known women who wore high heels all the time only because they were five feet tall, and trying to get some extra height.
Of course, it's not as though I'd expect any woman to wear high heels even most of the time. Nor is it more important than other qualities of a person. And for God's sake don't wear them in situations in which you may be expected to be highly ambulatory. It's really just a nice touch for sometimes, like the cherry atop a sundae.
Edited by: GRACEFULIFE at: 6/23/2010 (19:08)
6/23/10 11:40 A
Hmm...let's be honest about this guys. Most of us notice what a woman is wearing in relation to how it reveals her figure, am I right? We are not concerned with whether your bag matches your shoes, or your shoes match your dress, or your earings match whatever. That is stuff woman fret over when trying to impress each other IMHO. Now if we are on a date with this person and we both need to dress appropriately with regards to a specific occasion or event, this is something different. But for a woman just walking down the street, hanging out at a bar, whatever, then it really doesn't matter to most guys.
I love a woman in high heels! IF she has the right legs for it. If a woman is working to keep herself in shape and she has worked hard on her legs then she should be proud and show them off and high heels help with this display of accomplishment. And I appreciate the view.
I do like them. They are hot, but a woman who is comfortable and not growly is more attractive in the long run.
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734 6/22/10 10:22 A
Like said earlier, it depends on the occasion. I don't care what shoes someone wears, but I must admit I love it when my wife wears them with a nice dress if we go out for a nice dinner. They do accentuate the buttocks area
I'm so happy to hear that for the most part, high heels really doesn't seem to matter too much to you guys! Maybe it really isn't worth the torture-yay:) So from a girls perspective-mine at least- I think maybe girls wear heels b/c it makes us FEEL sexier and prettier(????) and if we feel that way it gives us more confidence and makes us a bit more likely to be brave/flirty. Anyway, it's just my opinion. I'd rather get my fake sense of confidence from makeup or clothing. Thanks for sharing!
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1,113 6/22/10 9:00 A
If you think men like women in high heels, you don't understand us. As was said earlier, we are NOT looking at your feet.
My reaction to women in high heels is "Why does she want to disable herself by doing THAT to her feet?" It doesn't matter how good looking or well endowed a woman is - high heels are a real turn off.
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915 6/22/10 12:14 A
I must admit, I like them. Maybe it is because my wife doesn't own any.
6/21/10 8:43 P
We aren't looking at your feet ladies. Comfortable is sexy.
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2,115 6/21/10 7:57 P
Women are way,way too focused on shoes in my opinion (my wife's closet is full of them)-high heels combined with a revealing tight dress that exposes the legs is not bad though I don't think that most guys notice footwear that much.
6/21/10 7:43 P
Doesn't matter to me.
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4,114 6/21/10 6:42 P
Matters very little to me. It probably depends on the outfit and occasion. But even then, I probably wouldn't pay it much attention.
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6/21/10 5:42 P
I think they CAN be sexy, but I'm much more attracted to a casual look.
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