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ABRILLOW76 Posts: 182
10/26/10 8:53 P

I am married to someone who is emotionally closed off- from practically everyone in his family! I can tell you it's no picnic to be the only one of us who is remotely social or polite to his relatives at family functions. It's very frustrating and am considering a separation. Think very long and hard about any long-term plans with the guy....

Good luck.

NUTRON3 Posts: 38,150
8/16/10 9:28 A

I need to decide what to do about my marriage. I have been married for 30 years, but the last 10 years have been hell and it just keeps getting worse. I was once so crazy about him, but now we are so far apart in everything. I have no respect for him at all.

LUANN_IN_PA Posts: 16,899
8/16/10 9:23 A

He was honest with you and told you his limitations.

Now you have to honest with yourself and ask if you can stay with him knowing that....

�We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.�
~ Randy Pausch

"There's a difference between interest and commitment. When you're interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstance permit. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results."
~ Art Turock

"We have a saying in Tibet: If a problem can be solved, there is no use worrying about it. If it can't be solved, worrying will do no good."
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NUTRON3 Posts: 38,150
8/16/10 9:22 A

U have to decide if u think he is worth the chance. This is for 1970

Edited by: NUTRON3 at: 8/16/2010 (09:24)
GLITTERFAIRY77 Posts: 8,023
8/15/10 11:41 A

I've been with someone who is somewhat emotionally retarded for nearly 12.5 years. I think a lot of it has to do with upbringing. He has bursts of affection, and he does show he appreciates me. It can be frustrating sometimes, especially if you are a generally affectionate/touchy feely kinda person-like I am. I grew up in a home where there were lots of hugs, lots of "I love yous", etc. He and I connect on other levels and inspite of some problems, we're determined to make it work. If the two of you really want to make it work, YOU CAN. There is some compromise in just about every relationship.

Edited by: GLITTERFAIRY77 at: 8/15/2010 (11:43)
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8/15/10 10:28 A

I am in a relationship with a guy who just told me he is emotionally closed off, but really likes me...not sure what to do as I really like him, too. I am scared of getting hurt again.

I WIll succeed!!!
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