Congrats on the upcoming wedding..
I'm getting married on the 5th of May 2012!! woohooo a wedding buddy on spark!
I also want to lose some major weight by then, like you said, those pictures are for life! I have just decided to eat healthier.. and force myself to eat breakfast everyday. Been at it for 30 days already and lost just over 6k already
alot still to go.. but at least I'm on my way!!
The first changes I made, was eating breakfast everyday, seriously reduced my fizzy drink intake and not eating carbs and proteins together in one meal at least 3 times a week! So far this seems to work for me.. at the moment I'm not doing any real exercise as this cold weather here in SA is really getting to me!! But will be starting to exercise in September more frequently!!
Good luck on your journey, both the weight loss and off course the planning of your wedding!!!