Hello and Welcome to Sparks!
Although each person has different goals, you're in great company here. The amount of support and community at Sparks is unlike any other website. (Trust me, I've tried them all!)
If there is any way that I can help you along your journey, just let me know! I'm always here for friends in need.
PS - The best way to find a partner is to have a SparkPage so that people can friend and encourage you. Without one, the site becomes a bit isolated. Once that's set up, start joining a few groups and add a few friends. You'll be amazed at how much community support there is on here.