the Duluth trading company t shirts are great. I wear the mock turtle necks during the winter for an extra layer. Plus the material is pretty heavy duty, worth the extra$
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484 2/11/12 4:11 P
Some guys like to think they are still a smaller waist size than they really are, so as their belly grows their pants get lower and shows more than other people might want to see. I do not know how he likes to dress but bib-overalls (like Uncle Jesse from the Dukes of Hazzard style) or just classy suspenders. If the suspenders had something on them, like if he was a duck hunter and they had ducks on them he might actually like wearing them more. Just some thoughts...
@O.P.: try FaceBook pictures! Take pics of him in "said" position(s) and post 'em on FB, HE'LL get the idea right quick! I don't malicously, just a random picture of him and his crack, you weren't aware that he thought this was a problem, right? LOL
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4,114 2/8/12 1:25 P
It never mattered to me either way because whatever you were telling me, I already knew. When I was fat, I knew it. So I really don't understand the point either way.
Thanks everyone - and I will definitely be getting him some of those shirts.
The thing is though, I would never tell him to lose weight or exercise more or anything, because I wouldn't want him to say that to me - all I want to hear is that I'm gorgeous. But this seems different to me. Any guys want to weigh in on whether or not they'd want to be told or just go on pretending no one notices?
I should add, that I have done things to let him know his crack is frequently showing.
My pant legs did in fact lift up as a result of me having a bigger & rounder buttock! LOL!
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4,114 2/7/12 10:36 A
KJ, you made me think about something. One thing that has changed during all of this that should not have ... my pants length. All of my 32" length pants are too short. People started poking fun at me. And I scratched my head ... how in the hell could this be?? Maybe I have a butt now that's consuming more length? I haven't a clue yet, but I did start buying 34 length pants to spare myself some (additional) ridicule.
Umm...YES, It is about self respect and decency too. You are married to him and are the one person that can and should change this. It's one thing to accept people as they are, but he is doing something that ridicules the both of you. You will have to be honest and take him shopping for jeans or a new belt, something and ASAP!
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