Both posters are so right. For me, I am a mom. I LOVE being a mom. What I really want is for my daughter to be able to run and play with me, because I'm not too tired to get off the couch. I want to take her to the pool and play, and not be embarrassed that I'm in a bathing suit. I want to show her what healthy living is, and she will learn her attitudes from me. I'm doing my best to never say diet or limit too much out loud, so that she never obsesses. More than all of that, I want to see her get married and have children of her own. I don't want my health to hold me back from enjoying my life or taking pictures. Those are some of my motivators as a mom.