Even when I was pencil thin in high school I never really had a waist, which caused me a lot of grief through the years. There simply wasn't much of an indent to call a waist. I didn't fill out up top until my 30s and no children happened to cause it. LOL. We are all different and that counts for a lot of what makes us special. It's taken me years to embrace that one. But with SP, I finally have.