With my youngest I didn't lose a single pound until I weaned her at 14 months. Not ONE single freaking pound from the day I walked out of the hospital. It was very frustrating, especially when you hear everyone talking about how breastfeeding helps you lose the weight fast. My body didn't get that memo. Just remember you're now the very first role model for your son, and he will learn everything he knows from you and others in your household. So put as much thought into how you feed and care for yourself as you put into how you feed and care for him. He will thank you for it one day!