Whoever said it likely did not mean it in a harmful way. Regardless of their intention, your reaction is up to you. When faced with a hurtful comment or action, we can choose to deal with the stress of it in a positive or negative manner. You can go stress-eat, or you can walk an extra mile to blow off some steam. You can sit all day and stew over it, or you can make a list of other things that will improve as you lose the weight, and make an inspirational board to motivate you daily.
Your reaction is where your power is, LINDAANNB1