When I reach my goal I'll feel more like myself and less like a pudgy matron. And then I'll buy the last few seasons of Star Trek The Next Generation that I don't currently have and subject my kids to a marathon! mmwahahahahahahahah
Fitness Minutes: (7,301)
351 3/6/13 10:03 P
I won't be hiding so much from cameras and other people
I will celebrate my hard work, and enjoy it only for what it is, without expecting anything else (the fantasy of being thin is one full of danger, I don't want to set myself up for expectations that will never be met).
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343 3/6/13 2:43 P
When I reach my first goal, which is to get down to 199 lbs, I will walk into my son's school events and not feel like I am the fattest, ugliest parent there and hopefully, I will feel like he does not have to be embarrassed of me. He has never made me feel that way, not even a little bit, but I guess I feel embarrassed for him because I am embarrassed of myself. I don't think my son is that shallow- to feel that way about me. I will also be more comfortable around my husband's family members who are all of normal weight.
My fiance will think I'm too thin. He likes a woman with some meat on her bones. I want to be thin with muscle. This difference of opinion makes it difficult to really work on weight loss. Do I want to be thin or do I want him to find me sexually appealing?
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11,681 3/6/13 8:27 A
I'll be happy to wear a bathing suit....
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17,195 3/6/13 7:05 A
I will buy a new bathing suit....not a two piece
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233 3/6/13 7:03 A
I will scream so loud they will hear me on the moon......
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4,347 3/5/13 10:01 P
I will take plenty of pictures, as proof, same as Oprah did back in 2005, so she had lots of photos for her magazine covers.............................reality , people!!
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563 3/5/13 9:58 P
my legs will be thinner than my husband's. LOL
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33 3/5/13 9:35 P
I'm thinking about providing myself with some incentives for smaller goals along the way. For instance, when I get out of the 130s, I will earn XYZ. When I can reach _______ fitness milestone, I will earn ABC. When I hit my goal weight, I will earn _____. You get the idea... Little (non-food) "prizes" for accomplishing mini milestones and goals. I'm not sure if this is what you were looking for in this post, but this is how I thought about it! Examples of non-food prizes could include: a manicure and/or pedicure, movies with girlfriends, a massage, shopping trip to buy clothes that (now) fit, lingerie shopping (to emphasize my new shape), permission to try that new (and maybe expensive) fitness class, etc.
Fitness Minutes: (131,968)
17,195 3/5/13 9:28 P
I will look and feel amazing!
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19 3/5/13 8:05 P
When I reach my goal...I will be happy to get rid of my several, what I call "squeezer suits". For years now, I have been wearing these all in one bra, panty, hold it all in, undergarments. My young Grandaughter looks at me in wonder as I painstakingly "squeeze" into it. Getting closer to not having to wear it much longer. Not to mention...they're hot in the Summer. And Summer is getting closer!
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