pure un-cut China white vanity is the only way to go. you have to make it personal, it can't be about being "healthy", it can't be about your "family", it can't be anything else except for vanity. Oh, you can SAY it's for others and the greater good, by all means, say that out loud, people like to hear that but to yourself? look in the mirror, have an idea of you want to look like and DON'T SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN AWESOME! Don't short change yourself by thinking oh, I just wanna be a bit smaller to fit into a size 24 or 42, go for size 4 or waist 32.
Go-FOR-IT!!!! Keep focused. Doing it for others sucks and motivation lost quickly. Goals, set your goals. Go for numbers: 16" biceps, 32 waist, 48" chest 25" thighs, a ROUND BUTT!!!!
Go for this:
not a smaller version of this: