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LOLEMA SparkPoints: (94,499)
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9/5/13 10:56 A

weird people

SUNSET09 SparkPoints: (206,657)
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9/4/13 11:34 P

What I don't know, however, God did not give us the Spirit of fear and I'm living on His promises! emoticon

RENATA144 SparkPoints: (93,517)
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9/4/13 10:17 P

My impending lumpectomy.

KENNAMY1 SparkPoints: (907)
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9/4/13 9:52 P

My fear is that I will always be this way and never get to see the me I have always imagined being!


JASMINEMARS Posts: 133
9/4/13 8:49 P

I am afraid of dying and not existing anymore in any way, shape or form. I am also afraid of being like my mother and losing the respect and love of my children.

BLUENOSE63 SparkPoints: (101,558)
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9/4/13 7:58 P

That I will not loose the pouch on my lower belly.

MALICORNE1 Posts: 67
9/4/13 6:55 P

Me too ! The wait is killing!

I wish I had a better answer but it basically boils down to the fact that we always expect the worse .... and most of the time, it isn't worse the anxiety!


MALICORNE1 Posts: 67
9/4/13 6:39 P

See! Look at all of us ! we are all afraid of something..

Sometimes it is justified, sometimes it is just mundane , sometimes we are chasing after our own tail, and most of the time, we are just looking for a friend, who is going to share our anxieties and ease them by simple understanding.!

To all of you , who have answered this thread, I have a suggestion: Find your "kindred spirit", from all the former answers, bare your soul as to why you are afraid of that particular fear and solve it together.
What is that english saying: "A friend in need, is a friend indeed ( or is it a friend In deed)?
There are no fears, which cannot be blown to naught !


One more of my own: I am dead scared of...... obscurity...and I know why/!



FAITHP44 SparkPoints: (52,430)
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9/4/13 5:42 P

heights - if I haven't got something solid to stand on.

MAVERICK59 Posts: 5,444
9/4/13 3:09 P

I fear quitting on myself and not going the distance, regaining what I have lost, and dying too soon.

AUTUMNGLORY7 Posts: 847
9/4/13 12:47 P

being stuck at this weight.

RENATA144 SparkPoints: (93,517)
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9/4/13 12:39 P

What the surgeon will say today.

AZULVIOLETA6 SparkPoints: (65,213)
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9/4/13 12:06 P

Pretty much nothing. I've survived an aneurysm and three brain surgeries--it's hard to really be afraid of anything after that.

WLIBERTY SparkPoints: (43,490)
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9/4/13 11:55 A

BLEGNER11, I am so sorry and I totally understand. I lost my husband 5 years ago to esophageal cancer. emoticon emoticon

Edited by: WLIBERTY at: 9/4/2013 (11:56)
BLEGNER11 SparkPoints: (30,895)
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9/4/13 11:51 A

I don't know if I would call it fear, but more dread. I dread what I know lies ahead with my hubby in his fight against cancer especially since his options of treatment are becoming less in number all the time.

DLBROWN93 Posts: 887
9/4/13 11:45 A

Not truly embracing all that life has to offer, due to my weight.

RONNIEHUEY Posts: 10,695
9/4/13 11:40 A

mirrors

HAWTLIKEME SparkPoints: (21,277)
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9/4/13 11:34 A

Giving up.

CAROLIAN SparkPoints: (107,664)
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9/4/13 3:44 A

Losing my independence and mobility

ANITA_66 SparkPoints: (16,994)
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9/3/13 10:14 A

Not reaching my goal!!

07SOJO Posts: 1,648
9/3/13 10:10 A

Not reaching my goal.

MALICORNE1 Posts: 67
9/3/13 10:02 A

Me too!
I try to avoid looking at myself in full. Mirrors the enemy!

MATTHEW0498 SparkPoints: (31,966)
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9/3/13 9:12 A

Never being fully happy with myself when I look in the mirror.

MALICORNE1 Posts: 67
9/3/13 8:20 A

Let's keep going and face our fears !

I am afraid to go to the beach and show myself in a bathing suit !

LILLITH32 SparkPoints: (9,151)
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9/3/13 4:33 A

Being the weakest link on the team

EMPRESSAMQ Posts: 5,077
9/3/13 4:26 A

that others will be able to make decisions for me

MARYSOMFELEAN SparkPoints: (66,588)
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9/3/13 4:05 A

Not doing anything good with my life and get fat

EOWYN2424 Posts: 5,828
9/3/13 3:53 A

That I'm going bald!


JESSAELINN SparkPoints: (17,454)
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9/3/13 12:54 A

Not being invited to physically challenging events with friends because they feel like I would slow them down... brats...

J2740LOU SparkPoints: (217,090)
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9/2/13 8:02 P

Climbing a ladder and heights.

SHERYLDS Posts: 12,173
9/2/13 7:54 P

developing diabetes

LADYCJM SparkPoints: (34,533)
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9/2/13 7:49 P

Putting it all back on.

AWELEAH SparkPoints: (42,048)
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9/2/13 7:32 P

Not being able to zip line with my mom because I'm over the weight limit.

MALICORNE1 Posts: 67
9/2/13 7:30 P

Let's see
! propose one instance and you can add up !

NO REPETITION , PLEASE.

Not doing everything I have planned to do...... because of my surplus weight .



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