You sound like you have an awful lot on your plate! But don't give up- SP is the perfect place to find supportive friends to help keep you motivated! I have over 100lbs to lose, and I've been on SP for barely a week, and I'm already feeling the encouragement and love from the friends I've made. It really helps to keep me going!
All of my family lives out of state, and my mother and I are estranged, so I completely understand not having family support. My wife is very supportive and trying to help me as much as she can, but she has severe fibromyalgia and just can't do a whole lot of physical activity, so most of what I do to improve my weight and lifestyle, I do on my own.
You can message me anytime you need a pick me up, my dear! We're all in this together, and remember: