hmmm... had to think about that a while.
I guess I don't need to color my hair "just to make yourself feel good." My self-esteem is not linked to hair color.
I DO get mild golden highlights every summer, as that brings out the gold flecks in my green eyes.
I would not need to do that if I laid out in the sun like I used to... the sun does a wonderful highlight job on my hair but is so bad for my skin!