It started a nice day, and Nic's mother called , to complain about me not working (i have to wait until after we r married to get govt. Permission) but to get away from this drama, Nic took me to a Chàteau to walk around on the grounds was nice, children playing, couples walking hand and hand, and I thought, this is how its supposed to be, simple. But his mother will not allow it, she is not stopping the insults- now I'm lazy..I put myself through college,have worked all my life and purchased 3 homes..but "i'm lazy"..i am thinking of giving Nic a deadline ,what do u think ?