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After my graduation, I decided to not to pursue my Masterís degree: I wanted to start a business right away. I was pretty sure that 2 years of MBA studies might not be the right choice if I could already start creating and getting experience from tiny businesses, which could save me from my hatred of predefined learning systems that would produce just one more industry laborer .

Everything comes with a price however, and starting a business without much experience and without a circle or sequential learning that could take it further is risky.

You know itís risky, but you might not be aware of just how risky it is. Thatís when your mind begins to guide your thoughts. Of course, this article isnít about business itself, but the correlations between business and instances in which you try to do, and be, something different from the norm, strongly relate together.

When you strive to be different, your thoughts are trying to find a way to feel different, safe, and yet totally relevant.

What clutters your thought process anyway?
Our mind is programmed to survive and generate. We are not really adventurous by nature unless adventure tucks itself into our livesóweíre happy if life passes happily, but thereís this contradiction: When youíre in the generation phase of your life, where you have high levels of creativity, you also have high levels of hormones running through your body, telling you to do something different; something that makes you stand out, stand tall.

When youíre in the survival phase of your life, you are continuously working towards survivalóyou just want to do whatís necessary and nothing more. A new-born child is in the survival mode, just like a senior citizen is.

Problems arise when your mind is torn between the two, mixing one priority with another. Thatís what happens with young adults, who want to do something great in life, but simultaneously, the world around them is trying to teach them survival.

For a moment, the world around them might advise (or even force) them to shut off their creativity and work towards survival, if not greatness.

Is your life suffering because of your ghost thoughts?
When that kind of confusion happens, there are five ghosts that disturb your thought process. When youíre on the path of self-discovery, these mental situations emerge:

1. Resentment: Nothing seems perfect. People are not the way you want them to be, situations are totally opposite and your mind is guiding you the other way out. It even encourages you to quit and lead a punished life.

2. Jealousy: Jealousy and Guilt often go together. You want to be something but you donít want others to be what youíre not!

3. Guilt: You see people around you getting ahead in life, but you still feel that youíre going nowhere. It literally pushes your thoughts fast forward and makes you think about what isnít going to be okay and how everyone else is doing fine.

4. Depression: When you arenít allowed to do what you want to do, or can do, this ghost strikes.

5. Fear: Society wants you to be different. It appreciates differences, but the very reason it does that is because people surround themselves with cultural and social bonds that help people survive.

Fear discourages you, makes you feel incompetent, makes you notice all you lack. It disturbs your simplified thinking making it more diverse and logical. You canít ignore these ďghosts: they make you anxious and overwhelmed, but you have to face them anyway. Every level of success demands a certain amount of work, and demands that you be willing enough to ignore these 5 ghosts of fear. Are you ready to pay for what it has to offer?

After graduation, I began to study social psychology. These ghost thoughts kept appearing time to time, but, every day, I would start anew, and somehow survived them. Somehow, Iíve learned to ignore them. I learned to ignore the very reasons I should quit and go back, and thankfully, Iím not the only one who did this! There are hundreds more and many more to come!

How to ignore these 5 ghosts thoughts and stay focused
Be passionate. It sounds simple, but really thatís all there is to it: be obsessed. Thereís nothing more.

I canít tell you what to be passionate about, but Iím sure there is one thing you canít resist doing, no matter what the cost of doing it may be. Youíve to experiment: via trial and error, youíll find the activity you most enjoy doing. One way to determine where your passion lies is by procrastinating, of all things.

Suggesting that you procrastinate might seem like pretty dumb advice to give someone whoís already in chaos, but even in the mists of the worst procrastination, youíre doing somethingówhen you are procrastinating, be aware that your passion is silently guiding your actions: the things you do when you procrastinate are probably the things you should be doing for the rest of your life. This isnít necessarily because youíre passionate about it, but because your mind virtually ignores the ghost thoughts when youíre immersed in what youíre doing.

What you should learn from these ghost thoughts?
Ghost thoughts are simply a mode of survival psychology thatís created at the back of your brain. These thoughts pop up in an attempt to keep you safe, and to keep you from taking on that adventure. If you give in to them, youíll have to wait a long long time before you get anywhere in life.

After graduation, I started giving interviews, and applied Ramit Sethiís Briefcase Technique (Similar to Nap Hillís technique on getting the perfect job you want, as described in Think and Grow Rich). I appeared in about 57 interviews over next 3 years, and my love for social psychology pushed me to cross the limits and figure out a technique that you can use whenever these brutal ghost thoughts appear.

I call it Ē The Thought Stream Methodď.

ďThe Thought Stream MethodĒ
Hereís how you do it: keep a diary in which you can write down your day-to-day activities, and try to make a habit of doing so every evening, before you go to bed. Make two columns. Contemplate what youíve been thinking all day, and then list your everyday thoughts in the left-hand column, and what you really need to focus on in the right column.

Here, you are actually streaming your thoughts out of your mind as you write and creating new, positive streams of incoming thoughts through subconscious notifications. With less than 5 minutes of work every evening, youíll get up fresh and focused every morning. This technique may seem far too simple, but it does require quite a bit of daily work. Usually, it takes around a week or two to settle your mental disputes.

Ultimately, the best way to un-clutter your mind is to be utterly passionate about your goal. I could teach you a hundred techniques to help you focus, but if you are not passionate enough about a goal, youíll lose track easily.

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