Sometimes all we can do is pray for folks who somehow don't grab hold of the Spark. Truly we can't grab them and drag them along. It says good things about you that you care enough to feel sad! Lots of folk just rack up the Spark Points and add friends and trophies but not nearly as much genuine caring. We are each a little electronic icon on this big site
But the interaction on the message boards, the Spark Mail, the blogging and posting on blogs - there IS a lot of REAL CARING in there. Ya just gotta look for it and connect when you find it! You keep caring, keep feeling and keep connecting - just don't let the sadness for those lost drag YOU down. Look at the ones who are succeeding against all odds as well and let them lift you up!