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1/21/13 1:02 P

My SO has a subscription, but not to communication sites. Perhaps a compromise could be made?

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1/21/13 12:54 P

Thank you i did end up asking about it He says he doesnt know why he did it. He said they are not real to him that i am. Its so hard to trust exspecially since i dont look anything like them girls. It hurts more. Its so hard to trust after you have been cheated on. My first husband did that and i vowed for it to never happen again

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1/21/13 12:14 P

Any good relationship is built on trust. Yes, you shouldn't have snooped, but he shouldn't be hiding his porn subscription.

Come clean. Apologize for snooping, but say you found this, and it bothers you, and you need to talk about it.

I don't know if you should be worried about it or not; sometimes, men look at porn. That in and of itself isn't indicative of a problem, but if he's doing it often, or hiding it, he may have an addiction.

Will he be mad? Yes. But you have a right to ask questions, and while you didn't do a good thing in snooping, trying to pretend you didn't is lying just the same, and not building a healthy relationship. Two wrongs don't make a right.

Here's a good article I found that discusses how you can approach such a conversation:

Edited by: DRAGONCHILDE at: 1/21/2013 (12:16)

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1/19/13 12:01 A

Ok so today i was snooping through my bf's email (first i know bad of me but i have a hard time trusting men since my first husband cheated on me and i didnt know it. My bf and I have been together for 4 years) and found he had made a seperate folder for a porn website that he subscribed to and is received picture requests from all these different girls. Do you think i should be worried? i mean i know men look at the pictures online but to the extend that he got a subscription? Any advice? I mean i want to trust him but dang its hard. Imean i know it is only the computer but i dont get on and look at that stuff so i think he shouldnt either. Do I say something because then he will be mad that i hacked into his email.

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