I know it can be frustrating when you have people around you that seem to be working against you and your goals. We have this article on how to defend yourself against diet saboteurs that you may find helpful: www.sparkpeople.com/resource/nutrition_art
. I also found this message board thread that other members discuss how they handle people who try to sabotage you: www.sparkpeople.com/myspark/messageboard.a
Hopefully you can find some tips in there!