Hi everyone, I have been a member for awhile now and got side tracked. So my friend and I were talking in 2012 about how we want to lose weight together to keep each other motivated. Well I got pretty sick in December and did not get over it till mid January. Low and behold my friend started without me and never even told me she was dieting and exercising. I felt very betrayed because now she is down almost 30 lbs. And I am only down 12 ish. I needed her to keep me motivated and kinda compete with. I am now looking for a buddy who has lost around the same weight as me and who needs to lose at least 60 lbs in total. If you are out there, I would love to hear from you.