Ok, as some of you may know several months ago I had a "stalker" (a guy) and I never spark friended him but my page was public. He posted time and again what he wanted to do to my sex body parts and it was, in a word, CREEPY!!!!
I had to set my page to private and he got kicked off three times and I haven't heard from him since. So I totaly get why women who THINK they are hot would set their page to 'private' so they can be choosy about who they friend. Armsport does it the best way; he HAS no freinds,...um,....er,....I mean "Spark" friends. Smart,....so smart!
KJ- as always you are killing me! This topic is hilarious and it's good it's in the guys lounge! Let the word get out that someone thinks not every chick here is hot and woah you'll be hurting!!! BTW my profile is not private..I'm not hot... ...Just totally freaking awesome
OK, I looked too. I'm not trolling SP for a date, so it doesn't bother me when somebody has their page private. What I find funny is that SP chooses a private page as a motivational page or a secret of success.
You could always add them as a friend and see if they add you.
I've sent a few messages as well as added them because I wanted to read their stories as motivation. Like one gal for example, she was holding up a huge pair of pants in her picture that looked 3 times the size of her current body and I wanted to know her story. So I added her and sent her a message and she added me.
That's happened a few times. In most cases, they really don't want random people looking at their pictures and if you send them a mail and let them know how you stumbled across their page, they'll add you.
That's just been my experience though, I'm not surfing sparkpeople to find hot women :) I'm surfing to find motivational stories to help me motivate others.
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