Congratulations to all the sensible people here. My family is another one that doesn't give/get many gifts. We don't like wasting money buying stuff that might not be exactly what the other person wants -- and all that shopping and pressure ruins the season.
So I just gifts for my 2 nieces and 1 nephew who are still children and they get me something. The adults just don't buy/receive any gifts from each other -- and focus on having a nice family get-together.
We joke about it and say things like, "If you see something you really want out there for less than $50 ... buy it forself and say it's from me. I'll do the same."