I too have had many naysayers in my life.. it's hard when the people you love the most aren't behind 100%. But I do realize also that many people have their own opinions about weight and weightloss.. take for example people who feel everyone was just born a certain way.. and that is it..
I know now through much teaching that my eating habits were horrible.. Never eating vegetables.. only getting high calorie foods no wonder I gained the weight I gained.. But now through realizing what I was doing and changing those poor habits into good healthy habits I am a much happier person and I can only hope those naysayers will look at me as a good example and want to be as happy as I am today..
I have lost 50 + lbs so far and although unlike most people.. it's very hard for me to take off weight I've been working with a nutritionist and so I know I'm doing the right things.. but unlike some people if I eat any bad food.. I don't lose weight or I gain a pound or two.. so realizing no one is the same when talking about how food reacts in our bodies is very important..
For a long time I also looked at a small sized person and thought how could they be eating pizza and fries? Now I know they probably have cut out a meal to do that.. but I don't neccesarily think that is a healthy option.. we all have choices in life and I just do what feels best for me..
I also Want to tell You Lilly
because maybe this is exactly what you need right now.. Please just focus on the positive things people say and block the negative. when u are thinking positive great things happen
Keep on the right track and you will find you feel much better in whole.. Remember also you hold the power to let negativity effect you.