My apologies; I didn't mean to make it sound like I thought you were renewing the vows Because you worry about what others think. I meant more that you're already happily married to him & therefore it doesn't matter what others think; the important thing is that you're married & happy together. My fiance and I have gone through a lot of family drama while planning our wedding, but what they think ultimately doesn't matter because come 29 days, I'll be married to the person I love, regardless of whether we've been planning it for the past year or just in a few short months. The rest of my life with him is what matters, not whether something goes awry on the wedding day or what people think of me or him, or us. Screw 'Em! :) I think it's important to really think about why you want to have another wedding now, big or small, since if it's big that could be a lot of money when it may be unnecessary for the wrong reasons. Only you can decide that, just remember it doesn't matter what others think; we're all okay regardless of whether we're thin, not so thin, short, tall, etc. The challenge of ignoring others opinions is definitely as challenging as losing weight. You Can Do It! :) Good Luck!!