He is proud of me for losing weight, compliments me and then cooks heavy high caloric meals. He cooks and does the shopping because he is retired and I work and I LOVE that he does it. However, when I encourage him to cook healthier meals because I am strictly dieting for my health, he bakes cookies and treats to test my willpower. I will cook on my days off to accommodate healthy choices, but it's not enough.
He says he needs the treats,so I ask him to keep them in his office. He also doesn't like it if I start looking " too good". He jokes that I must be having affair. I told him I was, with myself!