If not, I'm not sure what I'm doing here. But you have a point. We want to lose weight to able to accomplish other goals.
A Few of My Goals:
~To be more active with my kids
~Be a good example for them as well
~Eat healthier, practice moderation
~Wear pants (& clothes in general) that fit comfortably
~Feel comfortable in my own skin
But, the weight loss comes first. So yeah, it's one of my goals.
If you're stuck, maybe you can try to change your calorie intake. It looks like you've come a long way since 505 lbs, great work btw!! Try talking to your doctor for advice.