Im in need a losing 60 pounds HELP

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5/17/11 6:34 P

I agree with setting a date several months in the future so you have time to lose weight in a way that's healthy for your body, so you can keep it off long term. That being said, I'm getting married in a month and will be getting married in a size 22 wedding dress. It's not what I wanted, and it's not my ideal size for sure, but I didn't have my "coming to Jesus" moment about my weight until a few days ago. ::shrug:: and calling off a wedding for something like my weight just seems a little superficial. It's not about how you look that day; it's about the love between you and your fiance and promising to build a future together, for better or for worse.

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5/17/11 1:52 P

Maybe setting a date will give you more motivation? Having a deadline certainly got my butt in gear!

Have you talked to him about your concerns with your weight? I find I always underestimate how much my fiance understands things like wanting to lose weight. He may even want to join you at the gym!

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5/16/11 3:25 P

We dont have an exact date yet . but im scared to make one untill im skinny again i want him to see me like when he fell in love with me. not like iam now but the weight i slowly coming off

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5/16/11 9:50 A

They make wedding dresses in all sizes these days! Plus if you go to a store that has decent employees, they can help find a dress that flatters your body shape.

When's the wedding? I've only got a month left until mine, so I've been doing as much cardio and strength training as I can squeeze into my days!

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5/15/11 3:31 P

You will be a beautiful bride, no matter what your weight.
Did you and your guy set a date? That will give you something to aim towards.

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5/14/11 6:45 P

Im wanting to get married in the future soon how iam i going to do that being fat anyone have advice