My husband doesn't understand because he's not a woman. He doesn't have hormonal changes happening, he wasn't programmed to nurture (man genetics) and he doesn't think like a woman..... You know I was waiting for a very long time for him to "understand" days, weeks, months went by all the while I sat (literally) and waited! BUT truly it was I who didn't understand, I didn't understand that my life, my future was in fact in my OWN hands. I decided to stop waiting for this wonderful man to understand something the he never could,.....( the body and mind of a woman.) That's what led me to SparkPeople! I am full of hope now and I've taken the responsibility of my life from him.........Thank You Baby for not understanding, because maybe if you did I would not have found ME again.