I understand what you are going through. I have 4 kids...my day starts at 6 am, I have to get all 4 kids up & ready for school while I am getting ready for work. I take the kids to school (4 different schools) then I have to be at work at 8:30 & don't get off until 5:30, I then have to pick up the younger 2 and go home make supper, help with homework, baths, put them in the bed & then I head to the gym. I get home between 10 & 11 but it is so worth it. I am getting healthy. On weekends we do something as a family & I sometimes skip the gym.