Hello FIONAD86! I've lost 62 lbs since Feb 2010 (starting weight was 230 lbs)...& I can honestly say that it took a while for anyone to notice my weight loss in the beginning. Probably because I was weighing my clothing baggy back then...& w/lots of "cover ups" to hide behind! True!
It's difficult for others to see subtle changes in you if they see you everyday! And it also makes a difference on your particular body type & where you lose it first! For some, they lose a little all over & for others...it's on their face or arms that thin first. Focus on how you FEEL right now.....are your clothes fitting more loosely? When you look at your face in the mirror...can you see a difference? Did you measure before you started so you can "see" those changes? Unfortunately, I never did measure myself....honestly, because I just didn't want to know how big I was! But I would recommend it because now I wish I actually knew how much I've lost, inches wise!
Bottom line here is that.......you WILL lose the weight! If you track your foods, stay within caloric range, drink your water, & move your body! It will HAPPEN! One day on track + one day on track + one day on track = SUCCESS!
Good luck my friend! I wish you well on your quest for better health & wellness! You CAN do it! One day at a time!