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FISHER011 Posts: 1,600
3/23/13 9:27 P

only if I have to


DLDROST Posts: 8,082
3/23/13 9:08 P

Hate it...

BILL60 Posts: 526,194
3/23/13 8:51 P

No problem.

"Excellence is but for the few."
SEAFLOAT SparkPoints: (7,870)
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3/23/13 7:22 P

I use to try to avoid being in pictures because I thought I looked terrible. Then I started to realize people really like me and they want to remember the good times with me. So now I take pictures and don't worry about what I look like because remembering the good times is what it's all about.

WISDOM973 Posts: 304
3/23/13 6:16 P

I love taking pictures. Even though I am over weight (considered obese) I have always had a positive self image. I'm beautiful at any size, because my true beauty comes from within! emoticon

Keep the Spark Alive, we can do it!!!
ELIJAHSMOMMY1 SparkPoints: (2,615)
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3/23/13 6:03 P

always hated it, never like them....I see now that it is a problem though i have tons of pictures of my husband and son but pix of me n my son are rare because i always hate the way I look

M Taylor
SHANSDOINIT79 SparkPoints: (7,003)
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3/20/13 10:05 P

Have always hated it. Always will.

KEEP_GOING247 Posts: 1,754
3/20/13 10:00 P

I'm the one taking the photos usually. Getting more comfortable having my photo taken as i lose weight.

PAMLICO-DAZE SparkPoints: (46,810)
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3/19/13 1:06 P

Smile for the camera! Family wants photos because they love you. Size does not matter when it comes to love.

Remember to take time to enjoy the journey!
NWLIFESRC Posts: 9,316
3/19/13 1:05 P

let em take it

MRMRMMR Posts: 5,152
3/19/13 1:02 P

i hate it so im the one taking the pics

MKMMARTY Posts: 3,080
3/19/13 12:57 P

I take many pictures - and so I don't mind if people want to take mine.
I just don't want to pose for it very long - hurry up and take it

TENNISJIM Posts: 11,750
3/19/13 6:30 A

Not very well -- i don't like my picture taken

TWININGS12 SparkPoints: (17,330)
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3/19/13 6:30 A

I don't like to have my picture taken - I hide when ever possible!

BILL60 Posts: 526,194
3/19/13 6:29 A

I have no problem with it.

"Excellence is but for the few."
SHERYLDS Posts: 13,711
3/18/13 8:45 P

I run away..or..offer to be the picture taker....
and if I have to be in the picture (and it's not an ID), then I head for the back row
and hide behind everyone else.

Sheryl from New Jersey, EST...2015 Summer final wt. 225
EL for 2015 5% Challenge...Spirited Underdogs Team
3/18/13 8:22 P

I have to get my photo taken a lot at work. I try to dress simply on a photo day, and have good hair. I get my hair done every 6 weeks. If in a winter coat, I wear a good scarf and shoes. If it's a suit do not wear gray, it looks terrible in photos. It doesn't always work out, but some of them are okay. I did splurge and have a professional photo taken to use for PR purposes, so I could be 100% sure of an attractive photo.

Do or Do Not. There is No Try. Yoda

NANAW12001 Posts: 1,132
3/18/13 7:41 P

I avoid it.

3/18/13 7:36 P

strike a pose!

CARTOON3 Posts: 1,601
3/18/13 6:01 P

I am ok with it most of the time.

MOM2ACAT SparkPoints: (190,535)
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3/18/13 5:23 P

I hate having my picture taken; it's nothing to do with how my body looks, it's my face, in most pictures I look like I have such a horse face! My smile also looks goofy.

Edited by: MOM2ACAT at: 3/18/2013 (17:24)

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DANYLEIN SparkPoints: (46,864)
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3/18/13 5:02 P

I HATE to have my pic taken!! emoticon

SASSYBRUN Posts: 192
3/18/13 4:49 P

I hate pics so much, I don't have FB. If I had to put a pic up, it would be from 6 years ago.

My pet peeve, since I don't have FB, people who put pics with me in them on FB. the least they could do is photoshop.

ILOVESALUKI SparkPoints: (11,219)
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3/18/13 12:22 P

I hate it so I usually try not to look at the photos of me.

DLBROWN93 Posts: 887
3/18/13 12:07 P

I tend to hide in the background behind people.

SPARKGIRL811 Posts: 357
3/18/13 12:06 P

Hate them! My smile always looks akwcrazy!

OBIESMOM2 SparkPoints: (108,828)
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3/18/13 11:58 A

I'm with Patti - I cannot fake a smile. Candid shots are usually okay. Posed are usually really, really, really bad

The most handicapped person in the world is a negative thinker; a person who has the skills, abilities, talents and tools, yet chooses not to use them.
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SCHEALTHNUTT SparkPoints: (49,055)
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3/18/13 11:54 A

I hate it because I am not photogenic!!

IRISHFANUH87 Posts: 1,038
3/18/13 11:47 A

I like taking pictures for the memories. But if you really hate taking pictures, I don't think there is anything wrong with staying away from them.

FAWNZIB SparkPoints: (10,643)
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3/18/13 11:43 A

If it's a face shot no prblem!

If nothing ever changed,there'd be no butterflies
3/18/13 11:28 A

I can't put on a good fake smile, so most of the pictures I'm in I don't like.

Keep a sense of humor. Remember, laughing burns calories too!

Laugh until it hurts! It's one of the few things in life that's still free!!

Any effort is better than no effort!
3/18/13 11:03 A

when I was a lifetime member of The Fat Boys Club I hated my picture being taken but I stood still and smiled anyway for the camera.

Now? I'm a photo 'ho.

WENDY0210 Posts: 16
3/18/13 11:01 A

I was absolutely tortured when I was a kid by family members taking pictures of me whenever I asked them not to and they always tried to find embarrassing ones (i.e. ones where I was eating or with stupid expressions on my faces. At family gatherings I still hate it; I don't think they realized the ramifications it had on me. If people warn me or ask me to be in one, though, I don't mind. It's just the tortuous candid ones I hate, especially in the age of social media.

BUNNYKICKS Posts: 2,393
3/18/13 10:57 A

I have never liked getting my picture taken (no matter what my weight or fitness level).

But i find it a bit more bearable since the advent of digital cameras, and it's easy to take lots and lots of shots, and erase all the lame ones. OH I used to DREAD opening up the envelope of prints from the photo finishing shop, flipping through them and ughhh there would be me with my eyes squinted shut or my mouth hanging open or otherwise looking dorky and terrible... and would my mom ever throw these away? NO cuz she PAID GOOD MONEY for them ha ha ha.

Thank you, digital universe, for making picture-taking more bearable.

Goal 1 - break 200 (46 pounds lost)**DONE**
Goal 2 - leave obesity behind (BMI 29.9, at 185#) **DONE**
Goal 3 - BMI = Normal (154# or less)
RIET69 SparkPoints: (47,087)
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3/18/13 10:41 A

I don't like it, but I am a good sport about it and just smile.

TIG123GER SparkPoints: (76,906)
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3/18/13 10:38 A

It doesn't bother me. I don't like how I look but I don't stress over it.

Lay aside life-harming heaviness and entertain a cheerful disposition.
3/18/13 10:20 A

Smile and bear it

ADAPTOR Posts: 1,831
3/18/13 8:47 A

I am not fond of it, I certainly don't go out of my way to have one taken, but if asked I will grin and bear it.

in eastern Washington State (PST)

If there is no wind, row.

Learn to let it go when appropriate, learn to breathe deep and slow in a focused manner, keep moving, and seek contentment and happiness.
GEVANS7 SparkPoints: (126,943)
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3/18/13 8:45 A

SMILE! Act Goofy! Consider the person taking the picture. I take hundreds of pictures and people who turn away from the camera ruin my shot. It's a memory, a moment and everybody adds to the moment. Don't be a detractor or a negative nellie. Unless your in the witness protection program, seize the moment.

It was a picture of my former fat self that started my new improved journey.

BILL60 Posts: 526,194
3/18/13 6:54 A

I just smile and have it taken.

"Excellence is but for the few."
KKKAREN Posts: 12,152
3/18/13 5:20 A

I avoid them whenever possible

DENRNAJ SparkPoints: (94,416)
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3/18/13 5:20 A

Hate it but deal with it

Make it happen- just one step at a time!
THINNYMINNY SparkPoints: (34,960)
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3/18/13 5:19 A

Just smile.

History is not destiny.
TCANNO SparkPoints: (172,736)
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3/18/13 4:45 A

Having been on Amateur TV for years I don't worry about it. I would never have done it if I had.

Stills, I don't care!!!

Edited by: TCANNO at: 3/18/2013 (04:45)
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RUKIDDINGME123 SparkPoints: (36,258)
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3/18/13 4:24 A

Hate it with a passion and I avoid it at all costs.


"Genes load the gun and lifestyle pulls the trigger"

REDSHOES2011 SparkPoints: (35,936)
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3/18/13 3:33 A

Smile- nothing worse than having a photo with a frown on the face.. emoticon

Fitness is a battle, welcome to the frontline.
Suit up and fight for your life. War is war, no matter what front your fighting..
JANIEWWJD SparkPoints: (310,651)
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3/17/13 11:34 P

I'm good with it.

Janie Garcia Moreno




I_HEART_MY_FAM Posts: 1,809
3/17/13 10:54 P

I used to hate it and would be the one taking photos and wouldn't want my photo taken. I regret it now since there are long periods of me with many photos and I am absent in them. I have decided over weight or not I am going to be in photos so my kids and grandchild(ren) have photos of me. They love me no matter what weight I am at, I so regret running from the camera now. And guess what? I was thinner, younger, and better looking back then verses now. No more avoiding cameras for me. I took 4 photos today in the theater with my husband. I will be putting my favorite one on Facebook in a few minutes. I have a new attitude when it comes to my picture taken, I have the person take several that way I can pick and choose the ones I like. Technology today makes that really nice.

ANARIE Posts: 12,771
3/17/13 10:47 P

Everybody hates getting their picture taken. Okay, well, maybe not everybody, but LOTS of people, and it has nothing to do with how attractive you really are. The weight doesn't make much of a difference, either; I still dislike my pictures almost as much as I did at my very heaviest.

The only piece of advice I can give is to ask people not to let you know when they're taking your picture, and don't look at them right away. If you avoid pictures, other people will be disappointed because they want a picture of you, and at some point in the future you'll also be disappointed because you'll want memories and feel left out. As bad as it is to see ugly pictures of yourself, it's worse to look in an album or a good friend's Facebook and see pictures of everyone BUT yourself. There's about a 15-year stretch of my life that's really not documented anywhere, and I would be happier if there were at least a few pictures of me at certain events, even if they were truly horrible pictures.

And we always think our pictures look worse than they really do look to other people. For one thing, they're reversed from how we see ourselves in the mirror, so they look "wrong." They look bad to us because they don't match our self-image. But I mean, really, when was the last time you looked at someone else's photo and thought, "Wow, I thought she was pretty, but this photo tells me she's an ogre"?

So that's how I deal with getting a picture taken-- remember that the person taking it is taking it for him/herself, not for you, and let them do it. You don't have to look at it, but you'll have the opportunity to do it later if you want.

SASSYBRUN Posts: 192
3/17/13 10:07 P

I hate it. I don't think I look as bad as I actually do in pictures. How do I deal with this?

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