to SP!!! This is a wonderful site with an abundance of valuable information and an awesome support group. My best advice is everything in moderation - don't deprive yourself of anything. Try drinking more water, at least the 8 glasses and start moving!!! Best of luck on your weight loss journey.
P.S. I'm also getting married through church in October (been civilly married for 7 years)!!! My little one is 2 and I too am trying to get rid of the baby weight.