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9/25/14 9:54 A

I am so glad that you are able to get married after all. I am engaged now, and we plan on having a long engagement (We agreed to wait till I get my degree). I cannot imagine how that had to be for your. Bless You!

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GIBBLER0707 Posts: 32
9/24/14 9:09 A

I love the wonderful support you have received on here :)

Congratulation on the wedding and that life is amazing!!

-POLEDANCEGIRL- Posts: 14,362
9/22/14 10:23 A

Life is amazing!! Thank you for your kind words.

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-POLEDANCEGIRL- Posts: 14,362
8/11/14 12:13 P

Thanks :)

We did get married on June 11

MANDIETERRIER1 Posts: 14,890
8/9/14 12:40 P

That's great! Did I read somewhere that you ended up getting married?

Whether married or still engaged. I hope everything continues to be beyond your wildest dreams!

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-POLEDANCEGIRL- Posts: 14,362
6/23/14 3:20 P

Amazingly awesome!!

MANDIETERRIER1 Posts: 14,890
6/17/14 1:34 P

How are things going now?

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6/16/14 11:37 A

Same thing happened to me. Looking back it was the BEST thing that could have happened. He is now married and I see how that life could have been mine and I get so happy and thankful it was not me. Don't get me wrong- I was mad and upset at him. Since then I have got to explore the world and have even found the love of my life.

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6/13/14 7:38 A

WHHAAATTT!!! Not cool, try to hang in there. Guess it wasn't meant to be, but what a bummer!!

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6/12/14 2:16 A

I am so sorry for you however, I had a roommate while in college whose fiancé and maid of honor fell in love while working together on the wedding and they didn't know how to tell her so waited until not long beforehand - just weeks away after a lengthy engagement.

It was awful and awkward for all those who knew them but better to find out in advance than after one is married.

It is also best to learn how your loved one handles stressful situations, and how he treated you. Didn't break it off in person? I would be wary - hopeful for the best but cautious. He should have been thinking about how you would feel, and if you are so intimate, why couldn't he talk to you - or ask you in case you felt the same way and thought things were moving too fast? Please look out for your self.

MANDIETERRIER1 Posts: 14,890
4/8/14 5:47 P

Slow and steady wins the race.

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TANITHSEH1011 Posts: 203
4/8/14 11:14 A

As with all thing slow and stead is best. stay open and honest and you will see things work out in the most beautiful ways.

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-POLEDANCEGIRL- Posts: 14,362
4/7/14 11:31 A

We are doing good. On the road to our future. No big wedding though. At least not for now. We are still engaged. emoticon

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4/6/14 10:08 P

Wow I can't imagine how you must be feeling. I hope you are able to work things out.

4/5/14 1:42 P

I can't imagine how hard that must have been! Hang in there!

-POLEDANCEGIRL- Posts: 14,362
4/4/14 11:47 A

Thank you all! We are working on our relationship. Just a major bump in our relationship road

MYAKAYAH Posts: 9,279
4/4/14 6:48 A

Hope you make it through alright, its a rough thing to have to deal with! Good thoughts & vibes coming your way~

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MANDIETERRIER1 Posts: 14,890
3/17/14 6:23 P

I am so sorry

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3/11/14 2:49 P

That's so sad to hear. I hope you can work through this, and if you can't I hope your heart heals fully.

-POLEDANCEGIRL- Posts: 14,362
3/11/14 9:44 A

We talked yesterday. he got cold feet and got stressed out about multiple other things going on. I think we will be able to work through it. But, its still fresh and still hurts

LUANN_IN_PA Posts: 17,643
3/8/14 10:39 A

Oh no! So sorry you are going through this...

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-POLEDANCEGIRL- Posts: 14,362
3/7/14 1:58 P

No warning... no notice... just a letter. I am broken hearted.

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