I feel so BAD I spanked my little girl (6 yrs old) last night. And she didn't even do nothing real terrible, I was just so frustrated and tired. It was after 9:00pm and she did not do her homework after school like she was suppose too, she we did it late last night because we had basketball practice. I get upset because I get home after 6pm and she had 3 hours of at home time with her grandma who can help her with homework instead of waiting for me to get home and then she (my daughter) gets in trouble for it and faces the consequences. IO feel so bad, she cried real loud and said that I hurt her, why didn't i just spank the pillow and why did i spank her..... I feel so awful and bad that I wanted to cry too.... I need to figure out a system for us to help make are weeks better. Any suggestions, please help me..