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KKKAREN SparkPoints: (223,884)
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5/27/13 6:16 A

I'm usually a waiter but occasionally add. Just because someone adds me, I don't always add them back. I want my friends to have something in common with me or feel some affiliation to them. I keep my list low and purge often.

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AMARANTHA120S Posts: 474
5/26/13 12:14 P

wait

Edited by: AMARANTHA120S at: 5/26/2013 (21:20)
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DETERMINEDLOSER Posts: 4,873
5/26/13 10:57 A

I am generally a waiter. I prefer to have friends that I know are going to be there for me for encouragement and support.


BLUENOSE63 SparkPoints: (106,107)
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5/23/13 10:40 P

I prefer to wait to see if they were posting on comment or blog for the points or are genuinely interested in what I had to say.....I tend to keep my friend list to 40 persons or less.

PATTIJOHNSON Posts: 2,075
5/23/13 5:13 P

I'm a waiter -- or should I say I'm a waitress? Oh forget it!

Keep a sense of humor. Remember, laughing burns calories too!

Laugh until it hurts! It's one of the few things in life that's still free!!

Any effort is better than no effort!
YOJULEZ SparkPoints: (15,788)
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5/23/13 4:56 P

KJ, at least you aren't asking women about thigh high boots. I think many women here will know what I'm talking about with that one.

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REGILIEH SparkPoints: (249,856)
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5/23/13 2:48 P

both

MIAMI_LILLY SparkPoints: (121,809)
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5/23/13 1:01 P

In the beginning, I would add people that inspired me. Now, I wait until people add me, and then I add them back.

OBIESMOM2 SparkPoints: (77,095)
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5/23/13 12:15 P

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well, I still have the picture emoticon

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JGIRL5799 Posts: 553
5/23/13 12:05 P

hahahahaah KJ that is hilarious, I guess it could be worse...

I wouldn't think of being creeped out (at least not yet) But I guess there are some on every site LOL

Why I keep my profile pic of my hubby and I, But that has not stopped people in the past either LOL

Edited by: JGIRL5799 at: 5/23/2013 (12:06)
Julie

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KJFITNESSDUDE Posts: 15,787
5/23/13 11:58 A

Most of the time I wait because in the past I started to feel like I was "creeping" on women members so I held back and started to wait for me to be added and sure enough I was getting a lot of requests.

Now a days I'll add somebody if I'm SURE they won't feel creeped out.

However, don't get started on the amount of stalkers I've had to endure of BOTH sexes, JEEZSH, you post just ONE BUTTOCK picture of yourself & the creepers come out of the woodwork!
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JGIRL5799 Posts: 553
5/23/13 11:45 A

I find sparks funny sometimes...

I find it both that people add me as friends and I add others as well

What do you prefer? Someone to add you or you just go ahead and add friends?

I love adding friends just because its another person that is in this health lifestyle together and its great knowing that we are all in the same causes together...
I also tend to add more friends if they reply on blogs more than anything because they actually took the time out from the other areas of sparks site to make a comment...

If someone adds me automatically, I will do the same and add them..

Edited by: JGIRL5799 at: 5/23/2013 (11:47)
Julie

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