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8/10/12 9:43 A

Miss, have you tried calling him? Do you know his number? It is possible that something did happen to him, God forbid. I know when my husband and I met, we clicked right away. We had chemistry. We are both country hicks and we have alot in common. It is hard, however, to know a guys or girls real intention until you've known them for a while. I hope the best for you!!

OH, I just realized it's been over a month since you posted. Are you still with us here on spark? What is the update?

Edited by: TURTLESDOVE at: 8/10/2012 (09:45)

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8/10/12 9:28 A

Unfortunately for you, there are two possibilities. One, he was saying what he thought (and apparently was correct) that you wanted to hear, in order to try to get something he wanted. Two, something terrible has happened to him that has kept him from responding. Perhaps it is that.

Good luck to you, but I wouldnt trust the guy if he comes back without a good reason.

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7/31/12 9:21 A

Many things to consider, did he join a pilgrimage that you were unaware of?
Maybe he is watching Shark week on TV and can't be disturbed.
Or alien abduction can not be ruled out either!

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7/23/12 11:41 A

I agree with Gravelridgeboy, we can jump to all sorts of conclusions, but without knowing all the details, chances are we'd be wrong.

Best of luck:)

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7/21/12 9:00 P

Maybe it is just me but only a month to throw out the 'love card' sounds like he is needy or he is just saying it because he thinks that is what you want to hear. It sounds like you two were getting close to each other, maybe talked everyday? It might have been too much for him and he needed a vacation from all this new stuff. I do not need to go through all the bad scenarios because I am sure you have already thought of those. But in reality we can only make guesses, as much as some might think...not all men act the same or think the You really need to talk to him to find out what is going on with him. Good Luck

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7/21/12 8:20 P

Yea thats pretty freaking weird unless you are both 12.

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7/7/12 9:39 A

Seems like bizarre behavior to me. You've been talking to someone for "almost a month" and he said "he loves you"? Very. Strange. So couple that with dropping off the face of the planet. This isn't behavior I'd tolerate.

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6/30/12 11:41 A

MissJess check your SparkMail

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6/30/12 12:55 A

I have been talking to this guy for almost a month now. When we first started talking its like we just clicked. He told me all about his life growing up and I shared things with him. Just last week he told me that he loves me and asked me to come and stay with him for a while. Well, our last conversation went good, but I haven't heard from him in a week. He has a full time job working 6 days a week, but I was wondering if I should be worried or if this is just something men go through. Can you please help me?

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