I like her and I can't imagine how desperate she must feel to now do this! I wish her good and hope this helps her. I agree she needs to learn a different way of eating. I do not understand the husband, if what you say is true. He feel in love with her the way she is, so it isn't like she was thin and then got fat. I think more is going on there. Again, I wish her well. She should come to SPARKPEOPLE!