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STEELER71
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6/11/13 7:57 A


Optimistic



SUZIEQUE77
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6/11/13 7:55 A

I consider myself optimistic most of the time and in fact I cannot stand to surround myself by pessimistic people.

But as others mentioned here, I am also realistic. I don't try for "impossible" goals or expect something that I know is unlikely. When it comes to something like my sister who currently has cancer, I try to remain optimistic but I am also realistic and it is scary, and there is nothing I can do to avoid that.

There are some things in life we have control over, and some things that we don't.

I try to recognize areas where I can have some control and take actions to make something better. I cannot stand it when people wallow in self-pity and don't seem to realize the only one who can change their negative situations is themselves. I lose sympathy after awhile for people who do nothing but complain about how horrible their lives are, when the way I see it, they are doing nothing to change those circumstances other than complain and try to garner sympathy.



HICKORYRN
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6/11/13 7:55 A

realist



SIRENSONGS
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6/11/13 7:54 A

I'm mostly a pessimist.



MATTHEW0498
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6/11/13 7:53 A

I like Bluenose63's response....it's pretty right on for me too!



BLUENOSE63
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6/11/13 7:38 A

Optimistic with a healthy dash of Realism thrown in!



THROOPER62
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6/11/13 4:54 A

Optimist



TCANNO
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6/11/13 4:17 A

Well a bit of both really



EOWYN2424
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6/11/13 2:53 A

I'm kinda in between emoticon



RUBENB2003
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6/11/13 12:26 A

Optimistic



DAVEED
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6/11/13 12:23 A

Optimistic



LEANGIRL22
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6/11/13 12:17 A

ever the optimist!



FENWAYGIRL18
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6/10/13 11:57 P

pess


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BERRY4
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6/10/13 11:52 P

pessimistic (dh & I consider it "realistic")



KKLENNERT809
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6/10/13 11:48 P

optimistic



ROSEPHOENIX1359
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6/10/13 11:26 P

Realistic borderline Optimistic occasional pessimistic! emoticon



JO88BAKO
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6/10/13 10:00 P

my glass is always half full



SHERRIE59
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6/10/13 9:13 P

To maintain my sanity, I am REALISTIC. I don't want to place myself to be disappointed or get downtrodden unnecessarily.



J2740LOU
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6/10/13 8:03 P

I am an Optimist.



ARTISTGATOGIRL
Posts: 3,518
6/10/13 7:22 P

I have always been an eternal optimist, which has carried me through some pretty rough times!



SHERYLDS
Posts: 11,621
6/10/13 6:31 P

the more I find ways to be proactive and work towards making little things in my life better...the more in control I feel, the more empowered...and the more optimistic.

I tend to be a little pessimistic about the things I have no control over....
or maybe I don't try to do anything about them because I feel pessimistic about them



PAULIE91952
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6/10/13 5:47 P

Optomistic



AGITATOR1
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6/10/13 4:41 P

Since I had my attitude adjustment back in 94 when I quit smoking and started exercising I have been Optimistic. I have had my run ins with some pessimistic that failed to derail me. The future always looks brighter There are doors that lead to success that many people fail to open. The Goodness of Humanity outweighs the evil which tries to destroy. The best is yet to be.



 
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