I totally understand what you are saying.For the past 3 years I have been a door mat for my husband. I cook I clean I take care of our 2 children as well as his 2 for a previous relationship. All you want is respect and someone to listen and it just dossen't seem fair then men get everything they want and we have to suck it up or just fight till we have nothing left in us.Anyway I undestand just look where it's coming from half the time men don't think they've done anything wrong anyway. I know this probably didn't help much SORRY but I needed to vent because I'm as frustrated as you. take care and be happy!
ERRMEE 2/16/08 10:39 A
I am so tired the when I do or act bad, wrong or take my frustrations out on my family I am expected to apologize. What about their accountability. OH YEAH they don't have any. I am sick and tired of feeling this way and I am down right ticked off. I have been making excuses for his behavior (my husband) for the past week and he will expect me to apologize because I have now reacted to it. I will not.... I am so tired of doing the right thing and getting hurt from it. When does the right thing happen to me. I need to know I am worth it and admitting (my family) they to have a part in what happens in life. NOT just the good behavior but the bad and mean too.
Thanks for hearing me out I hope it all makes sense but I did this instead eating.
