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| Glad to hear your hubby's back where he belongs. A previous poster mentioned having him train you. That sounds like a good idea.
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LIZZYISAMOM2TWO
4/19/07 4:03 P
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I am so glad that he told her he couldn't train with her anymore! coulda used a better excuse but hey! lol.
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XXCRYYBAXX
4/19/07 2:34 P
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Thank you all for your suggestions. I talked to him about it and I told him I didnt want him training her anymore.And I think that if she wouldnt have called I might not have seen anything wrong with it but the fact that she called him for a ride
Is what really got me I think. But anyway he told her that he couldnt train her no more because she didnt say hi to me! I guess he just had to find a easy way out of training her. But he made me look like as if I like her and I wanted to be friends with her.
Its so dumb LOL
This girl makes me upset,lol. sorry to bore you all with my story. Have a good day everyone.
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LIZZYISAMOM2TWO
4/19/07 1:19 P
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I would be bothered by this too. Tell him it has nothing to do with insecurity and you don't feel that it's right for him to train with her every night. Ask him what their workout typically are and ask him if he could write out a plan for her. To me it sounds like they are getting closer than they need to be.
Good luck and hope you can work something out with him. Or if he don't stop then you go train with a male 
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JEANETTE0611
4/18/07 3:46 P
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| Try sitting down and telling him how this makes you feel. How about him helping you train and lose weight? Just a thought. Good luck.
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IMO, something's wrong if he's staying out until 9:30 at night with another woman--even if it's under the guise of training. He has 3 kids and a wife--he doesn't have time to be putzing around with another woman.
Maybe you could get a friend to spy on them, see what they're up to. Either you find out he's cheating or that he's just passionate about training. Atleast you'll have some answers. Less stress for you.
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| Sounds like it is bothering you and your gut check can be a good measure of whether or not there is a problem. Maybe go to the gym with them?
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CARRIE.MOM
4/14/07 8:31 P
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| It would bother me too. I agree with setting limits..if it's work, then it's work..when she starts intruding on your personal time (she has his home number or cell, she only wants to train with him, getting rides to the gym) this is crossing the line, IMHO.
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PERIDOTLILY
4/14/07 10:05 A
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| That would bother me BIG time! I would set up some major boundaries! I don't think that it's a good idea that they work together, work out together, ride to the gym together. I would let him know what you're thinking. Just remember though he married you and loves you! I would definatly voice my concerns! Good luck!
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XXCRYYBAXX
4/13/07 7:38 P
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| He works with her and they do work out each night together.but then some nights he gets home at 7:30 and some nights he gets home at 9:30 he says that he dont know how long workouts are going to be. But I guess it bothers me also cause when I asked him if she was pretty he hesitated and then said no. But he talks to her alot not just when working out.
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NACKSMOMMA
4/13/07 4:20 P
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| I can see where this would get you irritated. He needs to set some ground rules with this girl. Do they have a set training schedule? If not he needs to make one for her. More so, she needs to stick to it and not call the house anymore. Pick your battles on this one - ask him to make a schedule with her and then let it ago.
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XXCRYYBAXX
4/13/07 2:14 P
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| My husband is training a girl for boxing. But she wasnt doing this boxing until he got into training and now shes doing it too. But she also called our phone that she wanted him to give her a ride to the gym, and she calls everyday to see if hes gonna be there.Am I over reacting? I see a problem with this but he dont. what do you think? Should I just let it go? thanks for the advice.
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