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| My heart goes out to you. I understand depression all to well. Please know that I am here if you should need to talk. I have two children that are passed and I know the sense of loss and emptiness as well as failure.
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MOM2BOYS1975
1/31/07 10:40 A
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I'm sorry for your loss. I am familiar with the type of emotions you are talking about since I lost a baby in 2003 and came seconds from losing my 2nd child in childbirth in 2004 which sent me into a major depression and PTSD and resulted in me never losing an ounce of my pregnancy weight.
What really helped me both times was to find a support group. There are lots on the internet. It helps so much to talk to others that have been in your shoes. Only someone that has had a loss like yours can really understand the emotions you are feeling.
After awhile I decided it was time for me to move on. I had to forgive myself and forgive my body for killing one and almost killing a second child of mine (this was my frame of mind, I know now it wasn't my fault now) I had to force myself to change my perspective and do what I needed to do on a day to day basis. Then, finally, I didn't have to force it anymore.
I'm not saying there won't still be bad days, but you can get to the point where 99% of the days are good. If you can't get passed this on your own please seek a professionals help. They will be able to help you recover and find peace within yourself.
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GIRLYOUTLAW
1/30/07 12:29 P
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| I am sorry for your loss. I totally understand how you coul dlet yourself go and lose motivation. The fact you get up each day is such a sign of strength. maybe you should look at fitness like this: that if your desire is to have babies again you need to get fit and healthy again so your body will do what it needs to to give you babies again. I hope you find your desire again.
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KENTUCKYGIRL_35
1/30/07 11:59 A
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 I lost a set of twins a year ago this past oct. I just got to the point I didn't care about myself or what I looked like. We've tried since then and still haven't gotten pregant yet. I feel so empty and my heart is broken.
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