Thanks so much for those words of encouragement,as strange as it may sound, Cristians passing wasnt as hard as I expected maybe because I knew that every moment that I had him with me was an extra gift God gave me, I guess I eat when I miss him, but now I am trying to get out and walk instead of snacking, a little walk outside let's me talk to him and it has helped heal my soul, but like laways there are good and bad days and you just have to be strong and keep on going, places like these and words of support help so much, thank you so much!!
UGOGIRL51 7/8/06 9:22 P
If you need someone to talk to, send me a private message.
I will listen.
Grieve in your own special way.
BUFFEDSTUFF 7/7/06 12:43 A
there are no words I can say but I have heard and I wish you peace.
IAMJUSTME001 7/2/06 1:33 P
You poor thing. Life is awful sometimes. I know you are trying to fill a void now and it will take a long time but you may need to find someone where you live to talk to about you lose. I am so sad to hear it, my god bless you. take care. My twin sister lost a child at 5 month in her pregnancy. I was sad to see what she went through. I cannot comprehend but my thoughts are with you.
Laurie
NICECOL 7/2/06 10:46 A
Thanks, I think some people dont understand that it is ok to miss somebody that was special in you life, you will always find people trying to tell you how to feel and what to do to make the pain go away, but I realized that no matter what they say only you can move from missing to honoring, and remembering, I am glad that you found something that makes you fell better, I discovered that when I want to eat because I am feeling sad I try to remember my baby's smile and everything good he brought with him, and somehow the sadness changes, it does not go away but I can manage it.
GRUMPY72 7/2/06 10:09 A
Hello and sorry for your pain.
I'm kinda mourning the loss of someone, though most don't agree that I'm in mourning. For the first little while after she left us I ate constantly, then I found that I could create things to make me feel better. I've scrapped my pain a little, I've knit,crocheted and sewn things to make me feel better, and I do feel better lately when I'm not eating. The pain will never go away but it can open up new opportunities for you to understand yourself better and creative ways to live with the loss.
NICECOL 7/2/06 8:56 A
I wonder if there is anybody like me out there, that mourns the loss of a loved one by eating away the pain, I want people to know that it's ok to feel the pain and maybe together we can create a better way to cope with it.
