From what I've read I'd suggest dropping it for now. You said you told him not to call and that you will not call as well. Now, you're wondering if you should call him? If nothing else, that would be confusing, especially if he's honoring your first request. So, I would suggest letting it go. You perceived him as wanting more than the friendship and coming and going would make him think that there is a shot at you where one doesn't exist. There's my 2 cents on this one.
LAURENADDICT 11/26/07 2:03 P
I recently met this gentleman, he and I are married to other people. We wanted to only be friends, he wanted to take it to another level and I was against that. To discourage him I visited him at work, no other co-workers around at the time, and I told him that I we were only friends and this visit shopuld not bother him. It did. I told him that we should no longer have any communication with each other and that I would no longer accept not make any calls to him. Now my question is . . . . Should I call him and appologize because I would still like to be friends? Or just drop the whole thing?
